Jun 24, 2009

first ever.

I have been wanting to do a cross stitch for quite some time but have never found anything I liked the look of- a house, Winnie the pooh, a boat... boring... then on DUST ( Down Under Street Team on Etsy) I found the very clever and very talented radicalrags and her cross stitch designs which immediately appealed to me...but I still felt quite daunted by the neatness required... on Saturday morning I woke up, rolled up my sleeves and started ( my internal mantra - nothing motivates you like starting- kicking in)... I decided to just do the words and not the flowers- I wanted to keep it as simple as possible so I wouldn't feel overwhelmed. I was up to 11:45pm last night on a mission to finish it- I am very proud of it... its a little bit wonky but I did every single stitch that way / first.

I was telling a woman at work about it and she said "the back has to be as neat as the front." This immediately got my back up!! ( I just smiled sweetly at her) WHY DOES IT!????!!! This is exactly the kind of sewing attitude that keeps people scared to try new things! I cannot stand this kind of everything- has- to- be- exact and perfect and exactly right attitude- it stifles creativity and stops people experimenting- it keeps us closed in a box- all the sewing rules and this and that - it scared me off sewing for years - I had a sewing teacher at school , Miss Nash-like this- who was ultra critical and she really put me off. Now I love it and it makes me angry that she ruined my confidence so much that I only recently felt confident enough to sew again.

Craft and art and creativity needs to be open to everyone- bend those rules ( I have yet to buy Bend the Rules Sewing book but I love the idea) make mistakes, cut corners, try new things we need to encrourage difference and experimentation- thats how people learn. We need to make everyone feel like they can have a go , have a try, regardless of their age, experience etc- we need to make it inclusive-we need to help and share those new to it-they might find out they are really good at it... and wouldn't that would be very exciting!!!

10 comments:

  1. Bend The Rules was one of the first books that I read when I started sewing again, and I'm so glad that I did. I have those horrible memories of year 8 sewing when everything had to be perfect. Now I just wing it and I love it!

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  2. OMG, that is the neatest thing I've ever seen in my life. And I can't see the back so I don't care... who looks at things from behind anyway?

    How's your internet connection? You SO need to watch this:
    http://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity.html

    it's right in line with the 2nd part of this post. You'll like it!

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  3. You've techincially designed your own cross-stitch pattern without even knowing it! Why don't you cross stitch "Question Sewing Authority" or "Question Sewing Rules"? tee hee. I love a good revolution. I'll be there egging you on!

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  4. I remember my sewing teacher making us sew the wrong side of bias binding, one hand stitch corresponding with every machine stitch to sew the binding down.. I hate bias binding now but if I have to bind something and I cant do it on the machine it ends up in the unfinished pile !
    I digress, I agree with your post !

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  5. It looks so awesome! Well done!

    And you're right, there is no bloody law that says the back has to be as neat as the front. It's nice to have a tidy back when you're embroidering on a piece of clothing and someone might actually SEE the back. But cross stitch? no way.

    I think there's enough pressure on us to be perfect in life without it intruding on our craft lives too. And lord knows cross stitch is already anal enough...

    Great work!!

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  6. I had a teacher when I was 7&8 who was so crtical of my art and sewing that i still remember her horrible words to this day! My nan spent awhole weekend trying to teach me to sew a bookmark with cross stitch etc and I took it into her so prpudly on Monday morninga nd she called me a liar in front of the whole class because she didn't believe I had made it! And when i drew a picture of a sun with rays coming from it she said it was ridiculous and the sun doesn't have rays...(which it does) Oh, the feelings I am raking up here...I am emotionally scarred by Mrs Light...therapy please!
    ps your xstitch is cool - rebel by making the back etxra messy. who bloody sees it anyway?

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  7. How cute is your new avatar photo!!!???

    Thanks for your wise council on changing your name. I had always wondered if Chef's last name was your's, 'cause that'd have some street cred eh? hehehe.

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  8. your the bees knees..i just found your blog..stumbled upon it somehow..i have been giggling away
    i thank xx the world for people with witty sense of humour like yours xx
    mrs shep

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  9. Love your cross stitch, check put Silke Raetze-up and coming contemporary australian artist also works in cross stitch-love her work 2......http://www.michaelreid.com.au/artists-works?aid=15

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