ometimes life is unfair. I don't know why I am surprised by this... but I often am. Sometimes bad things happen to beautiful people and it just shocks me. In my work I see trauma or the consequences of it on a daily basis , I am told things that, at times, make me want to scream with rage... but when bad things happen to people I know it really shakes me. Then I am shocked by my reaction. But why do we assume that life will be fair? I know for me I am the eternal optimist. The glass is always half full... maybe that's why I am shocked when things don't turn out to have a happy ending.
I love a happy ending. I love it when everything is neat and tidy. I hate it when its not... but is it ever?
Anyway, jeez sorry to get all gloomy folks. On a brighter note... its Chefs birthday next week. He is going quad bike riding with a mate and a fishing trip with the boys on the weekend. How can I top that??? Any ideas??? what is the best present you have bought a bloke??!!!
(Thank you to everyone who emailed and sent lovely messages telling me to look after myself, it was very much appreciated and I probably did need the reminder....)